Pat’s Rant
Sexy Stuff! If you don’t want to see…don’t read !
I have been told I am highly sexed. I like sexy pictures and content. Women I am close to are amazed I am still interested in a lot of sex ..get this…AT MY AGE! Harumph. Some have been very clear that I am too open about this. It makes them uncomfortable. Why? I am not coming on to them or going after their men. A highly sexual woman is subjected to all kinds of judgements from all kinds of people. Everyone has an opinion. Most are unkind, and inaccurate. And what are we doing to our women by judging so openly that way? What are we creating? Sexuality is a creative force. It’s one of the most powerful aspects to human personalities. And by stuffing it dramatically, and making it wrong, we are creating perversion. I want to be myself. I am capable of being appropriate, and I dress beautifully with taste. Yes, I am highly sexual. That is not an invitation, by the way, for anyone to think I am interested in a sexual encounter with them. It is not an invitation for sexual innuendos from anyone. It’s my business. But I cannot help that my energy is tinged distinctly with a sexual aura. I see women attacked every day on social media and in my life for what others perceives as sexual and they do not approve. I have heard women say things like “Who does she think she is?” when another woman chooses to think herself attractive. Why? Because we have been programed to think sexuality in wrong. Period. It’s a control put on women by society and we have bought into it for millennia.
What is it about us that judges a woman for her sex drive? If a man is highly sexed, we say he is manly. If a woman has a sexual presence, we call her a slut.
It’s time we get out of other people’s business and take control of our own lives, minds, and bodies.
And high time we start enjoying our sexual natures!
I often use my sexual energy in creation of something new, and in my physical well being, like working out or dancing.
Patricia is an actress, stunt woman and business coach for creatives. Best known for her work in science fiction and horror, Pat has also been working with other creative souls on marketing, networking and organizing their careers to create a life and business they love. Join her on Facebook/PatriciaTallmanPage , her site and twitter for tips, inspiration and sexy fun!
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